In relationships in our daily life, we meet all kinds of people with different
characteristics. Sometimes, there are some characteristics which are contrary
to our habits or our environment, and it causes some conflicts or
misunderstandings. To solve these problems, we need to have an attitude of
forgiveness and mutual understand each other. Because if we already have a
sense of forgiveness and understand about each other, we will realize that we
are not perfect. In this case, I believe these things can makes you be able to
forgive others in easier way.
We have to believe that nobody has never made a mistake, whether conscious or
unconscious mistakes. Because in this world, no one is perfect, not even
ourselves. As we know, perfection belongs only to the God, the one who created
this world for us. And beside that, we should not judge a people from their look, because people with a bad looking
is not necessarily have bad habits. A person with a good looking is not
necessarily has a good habit as good as they look. And now we can realize, that
no one is perfect in this world, everything will have drawbacks, both in terms
of physical and psychological aspect. So, when other people make mistakes, we
must introspect and ready to forgive because we also did another mistake. If we
realized that we have ever done something wrong, it would be easier to forgive
the mistakes of others. For example, when one of our friends forgot to do
his/her homework, we shouldn’t ridiculed them because we also ever did it before
even only once. We better ask him/her what’s their reason that causes them
forgot to do their homework.
And the second thing is we should have a calm, clear, and cool mind wherever,
whenever, and whatever situations we are in. Although we are in a problem,
small problem or a big problem, we should be able to control our minds, so we
won’t be provoked by our emotionals. Also, we need to be patient in order to
solve the problem. Because if we don’t take a control of our emotional, the problem
won’t be finished soon. Besides that, we should not exaggerate the problems we
have. Because if we face a problem emotionally, it will only make the problems
bigger, we will not finish the problem. Remember that solving a problem is much
better than exaggerating it.
The most important thing in this life is peace. But, many of us do not know that
actually one of the efforts to achieve peace is to forgive each other. Besides
gaining peace, forgiveness will also bring us unity and wholeness in our daily
life in this world. In a friendship, we should be able to forgive each other to
prevent any conflicts between us. Because conflict within friendships can lead
to a fights or a discord, and that’s not good for us. Also in a works together
in a team, we also need an attitude to forgive among teammates who work
together with us, in order to achieve the best result. Because if we can not
forgive each other between a teammates in our teamworks, sure than we will not
be able to obtain the best result of our hardworks with our team.
From all things above, we can
conclude that the things that can make you able to forgive others in easier way
are realizing that nobody is perfect, taking a problem in an easy way and
controlling our emotion, also knowing that forgiveness means regaining a sense
of wholeness and peace in your life. Forgiving someone is a step towards
achieving peace in our life, and forgiving is not as difficult as we thought.
Face everything with a smile. (Created by : Lisa Adelia)
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